From our friends in RUINER:
“Anthony "TJ" Catalfo played drums for Ruiner for what was supposed to be the final two years of the band (2009-2010). He became the annoying little brother in the van pretty much immediately. Not because he was mean-spirited or an asshole. It was mostly because he wasn't. He didn't share the same jaded and pessimistic outlook that the rest of us had at the time. He saw the world through a lens most of us had forgotten; to him, everything still held so much beauty that we took for granted.
TJ lost his battle with cancer today. He will be remembered as a genuinely good and kind-natured person. He leaves behind a wife and three daughters who truly love one another. This was too soon for this young man.
Rest In Power, TJ.”
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